#Positive Vibes Only
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Hello
cuties,
Get
in here, let’s have a little chat on positivity. Hope you’re having a great
day, how’s the sun treating you if you’re in Nigeria?
So
if you’re following me on Instagram, you would have noticed that most of my
photos come with a ‘PositiveVibesOnly’ hashtag on the caption. well, that’s
because am always positive and been positive is a practice of hope, faith,
happiness, optimistic in attitude. You should be like me in this part no matter the situation.
Ok,
am not here to preach cos am not a preacher girl *smiles* but believe me, there
is nothing you’re going through that no one has not passed. “Life is a
beautiful place” you know.
If
you are feeling stressed? Breathe and do
what you love.
Feeling
alone? Pick up your cell and call your friends, invite them over.
Having
a bad day? cry if you want to, it eases depression sometimes. Just don’t
overthink or stress.
So
back to being positive, why I chose Positive Vibes Only?
Oh!
Yes, I am striving to see the positive in every aspect of my life. But it’s not
always easy tho, but every now and then, we need motivation to keep swinging. Positive
thinking improves my mood, gives me confidence and elevates my hopes.
N|B "An optimistic person sees the opportunity in every difficulty".
There are however, some guide to
living positively:
- POSITIVITY IS A CHOICE/ GET RID OF NEGATIVITY
At
first, before I came to realization, I used
to blame my negativity on situations, outside forces, but never realized it’s
something you chose within you, your state of mind and one thing for sure is
you don’t live a positive life surrounded by negative people who don’t encourage your happiness, people
who do not push you to be a better version of you. You continue to allow
negative minds In your circle because of bond or because they are family, you
should learn to cut them off. Some people can be parasites, they suck out your
happiness and energy bringing negativity into your life but when you surrender
yourself with positive people, you hear positive outlooks, stories and positive
affirmations and words that sink and affect your own line of thinking which
then affects the world around you.
- NEVER COMPARE YOU WITH OTHERS
Its
ok to look/admire greatness, success, love but never compare but rather feel
happy with what you have already cause you never know how they got there or
what it took them to get there. Constantly wishing your life was like theirs,
your face and body were like theirs, your family was like theirs, your partner
like theirs, you at the end feel miserable and feel like something is missing
in your life. So darling, how about you live simple and appreciate what you
have, be happy and if you ever feel you want more, work for it, strive other
than compare. There’s a big difference.
- SKIP THE GRUDGE PART
Learn
to let go even tho its difficult sometimes, but do it for yourself. Remember,
hating kills you more than the person you’re mad at. It steals your joy. No matter
the hurt, the look-down, underestimate, backstab, abuse, learn to let go, free
your soul to live stronger and more powerful.
- LIVE, LAUGH, LOVE
This
is my favorite part and my everyday key to living. Stop over-analyzing,
dwelling on thought about something, Constantly thinking about something over
and over again. Some people may think answers may come out but what you get is
series of worries. Just live and stop worrying, Worry affects your health. Just
like little kids and happy couple on dates are happy, live for the moment.
Let
the POSITIVE VIBES flow
Stay
motivated, remain positive.
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you enjoyed this post, feel free to share with friends and let me know if you
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LUCHY
8 comments
Loved your article! I completely agree that positivity is a choice, one that should be made when we choose the people we spend time with and the situations we want to get ourselves into.
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